I don't know if you will follow through, what guarentee do I have?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This dude's a moron. I know you weren't white knighting. This guy knows nothing of PD lol
Also can I just say, since I posted here asking for help and people messaged me and posted in this thread to help me out, I have actually felt better about things and even though I have my moments, they don't last as long, and my relationship has improved 5x. So, even though my feelings will never change, my reaction to my feelings can.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I would apologize for loosing my control. I would like this forum to not devolve into this kind of rubbish. I think it weakness to be impulsive. I would gain nothing in this.
And as for him he can believe what he wants to believe about me. Ignoring.
And as for him he can believe what he wants to believe about me. Ignoring.
He's a really bad troll. It doesn't matter what he says, you'll continue being a psychopath and I'll continue being a non-person regardless.
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This thread has run its course. Closed.
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