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Uhh OK...either you live in a delusional reality or you are joking.Two made up books hahahahaha gtfo man
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Uhh OK...either you live in a delusional reality or you are joking.Two made up books hahahahaha gtfo man
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No, but I was on staff at Arthur Andersen during their final year of existence. Left with one hell of a Rolodex alsoHi Baron of Hair,
You read Arthur Updike?..
Or perhaps it requires having an intellect further than what you capabilities allow to understand.Why? Cause all religious books are the pretty much a plagiarism between each other written by men making up stories like some virgin lady got pregnant by a pigeon and from a couple came the whole mankind? Pfffftttt give me a break, wait until you hear that santa clause was actually your parents and not a fat white bearded guy who flies in a sled giving gifts.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lighten up, brother!Zen and The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig
Why Buddhism is True by Robert Wright
The Moral Animal by Robert Wright
The Dragons of Eden by Carl Sagan
Demon Haunted World by Carl Sagan
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Mate
Affective Neuroscience by Jaak Panksepp
The Myth of Mental Illness by Thomas Szasz
Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
Letters from A Stoic by Seneca
Sickness Unto Death by Kiekegaard
Treatise of Human Nature by Hume
Notes from Underground by Dostoyevsky
Also hard for me to wanna plug self-help books, but Atomic Habits, Power of Now, and Radical Honesty, are pretty good too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm trying to get into fiction more for sure because it does offer something that nonfiction can't. And I shamelessly admit to still loving the Harry Potter books and some other children/young adult fiction like Eragon or The Amulet of Samarkand. I will have to add The Black Company series to my list, it sounds like a fun read.Lighten up, brother!
Lol
I was never a big fan of fiction, but an internet fren put me on The Black Company series.
It's spectacular. You have a dark fantasy aspect, but also war tactics, courage and camaraderie.
I hadn't really read fiction since i was kid. I went through a self-help phase, combined with a philosophy phase, plus i love war history. So that's been the majority of my reading and i have plenty of those recommendations.I'm trying to get into fiction more for sure because it does offer something that nonfiction can't. And I shamelessly admit to still loving the Harry Potter books and some other children/young adult fiction like Eragon or The Amulet of Samarkand. I will have to add The Black Company series to my list, it sounds like a fun read.
Here's all the fiction books on my book list that I will eventually buy:
Roadside Picnic by Strugatsky
We by Zamyatin
1984 by Orwell
Norwegian Wood by Murakami
Oblivion: Stories
Three Body Problem
Ringworld
Expedition — Being an Account in Words and Artwork of the 2358 A.D. Voyage to Darwin IV
All Tomorrows
Here's a good list from the communityAny good book suggestions?
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Some of those are solid for sure (Aaron Clarey's for instance) but it's mostly PUA and self help which is cringe in excess.... Guess it depends what your goals are, are we assuming the reader is only interested in improving success with women? Regardless, these strike me as prototypical 'bro' books that aren't particularly well rounded but are mostly pontifications and ideological, matter-of-fact prose from randos that could all be the same person. How about some evolutionary biology/psychology/philosophy or some left fielders such as "Women" by Charles Bukowksi?Here's a good list from the community
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Everyone always asks time and time again for recommended books for men to read. So here you go. I broke it down into categories. When I read them, I usually got the book and audio versions. Dating & Relations The Book of Pook (free) The Rational Male The Book of Numbers: Analyzing the ROI on...www.sosuave.net
Not bro books at all. They encompass the idea at SS.Some of those are solid for sure (Aaron Clarey's for instance) but it's mostly PUA and self help which is cringe in excess.... Guess it depends what your goals are, are we assuming the reader is only interested in improving success with women? Regardless, these strike me as prototypical 'bro' books that aren't particularly well rounded but are mostly pontifications and ideological, matter-of-fact prose from randos that could all be the same person. How about some evolutionary biology/psychology/philosophy or some left fielders such as "Women" by Charles Bukowksi?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.