“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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-Anything by Nabokov and Updike

-Glass Jaw by Eric Dezenhall


-Power by Jeff Pfeffer

-The Leadership Challene by Posner and Kountz
 
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The Bible was mentioned in the context of understanding our world, expanding your views, etc...
And in that sense, it is the most principal book (rather a collection of books written by many people over a long period of time) of the western society. Whether you choose to believe the dogma part of it, the ethical core of the western society is based on judeo-christian teachings. And it is mostly all metaphorical- which is the part you can't seem to grasp. The Bible dogma still seems more real in comparison to books like "The Alchemist" and "100 years of solitude", lol, which are also regarded as great books of our time.

Most of the famous novels are made up stories- and for a reason. You can learn something from each one of them. More so from Dostoevsky than from Paulo Coelho, but still. Everything is that stood the test of time is worth trying to read.
 

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I own or have read the majority of books in that list. I'm a book nut. I own around 1,000 books. Three full bookshelves, and the rest stored in plastic tubs all around my apartment.
 

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Hi Baron of Hair,
You read Arthur Updike?...Bony the Black detective?.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Why? Cause all religious books are the pretty much a plagiarism between each other written by men making up stories like some virgin lady got pregnant by a pigeon and from a couple came the whole mankind? Pfffftttt give me a break, wait until you hear that santa clause was actually your parents and not a fat white bearded guy who flies in a sled giving gifts.
Or perhaps it requires having an intellect further than what you capabilities allow to understand.

One or the other.
 
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Gates of Fire

Couldn't recommend it enough

Also, The Black Company got me through some rough times. I think there are 10 books total. All worth it. What a ride!
 
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Empire of the Summer Moon. Spectacular book about the Comanche Indian warrior tribe

The 50th Law. My favorite self-help book.

Anything by Arthur Schopenhauer. All eye-opening reads.
 
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Storm of Steel. The best first person account of WW1.

Mine were of Trouble. The best first person account of the Spanish Civil War.

Journey to the End of the Night. One of the best dark novels ever written. I'm gonna reread this one soon
 

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Zen and The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig
Why Buddhism is True by Robert Wright
The Moral Animal by Robert Wright
The Dragons of Eden by Carl Sagan
Demon Haunted World by Carl Sagan
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Mate
Affective Neuroscience by Jaak Panksepp
The Myth of Mental Illness by Thomas Szasz
Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
Letters from A Stoic by Seneca
Sickness Unto Death by Kiekegaard
Treatise of Human Nature by Hume
Notes from Underground by Dostoyevsky


Also hard for me to wanna plug self-help books, but Atomic Habits, Power of Now, and Radical Honesty, are pretty good too.
 
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Ragtime - E.L. Doctorow
Native Son - Richard Wright
Cosmos - Carl Sagan
Nicholas & Alexandra - Robert Massie
 
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Zen and The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig
Why Buddhism is True by Robert Wright
The Moral Animal by Robert Wright
The Dragons of Eden by Carl Sagan
Demon Haunted World by Carl Sagan
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Mate
Affective Neuroscience by Jaak Panksepp
The Myth of Mental Illness by Thomas Szasz
Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
Letters from A Stoic by Seneca
Sickness Unto Death by Kiekegaard
Treatise of Human Nature by Hume
Notes from Underground by Dostoyevsky


Also hard for me to wanna plug self-help books, but Atomic Habits, Power of Now, and Radical Honesty, are pretty good too.
Lighten up, brother!

Lol

I was never a big fan of fiction, but an internet fren put me on The Black Company series.

It's spectacular. You have a dark fantasy aspect, but also war tactics, courage and camaraderie.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lighten up, brother!

Lol

I was never a big fan of fiction, but an internet fren put me on The Black Company series.

It's spectacular. You have a dark fantasy aspect, but also war tactics, courage and camaraderie.
I'm trying to get into fiction more for sure because it does offer something that nonfiction can't. And I shamelessly admit to still loving the Harry Potter books and some other children/young adult fiction like Eragon or The Amulet of Samarkand. I will have to add The Black Company series to my list, it sounds like a fun read.

Here's all the fiction books on my book list that I will eventually buy:

Roadside Picnic by Strugatsky
We by Zamyatin
1984 by Orwell
Norwegian Wood by Murakami
Oblivion: Stories
Three Body Problem
Ringworld
Expedition — Being an Account in Words and Artwork of the 2358 A.D. Voyage to Darwin IV
All Tomorrows
 
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I'm trying to get into fiction more for sure because it does offer something that nonfiction can't. And I shamelessly admit to still loving the Harry Potter books and some other children/young adult fiction like Eragon or The Amulet of Samarkand. I will have to add The Black Company series to my list, it sounds like a fun read.

Here's all the fiction books on my book list that I will eventually buy:

Roadside Picnic by Strugatsky
We by Zamyatin
1984 by Orwell
Norwegian Wood by Murakami
Oblivion: Stories
Three Body Problem
Ringworld
Expedition — Being an Account in Words and Artwork of the 2358 A.D. Voyage to Darwin IV
All Tomorrows
I hadn't really read fiction since i was kid. I went through a self-help phase, combined with a philosophy phase, plus i love war history. So that's been the majority of my reading and i have plenty of those recommendations.

As far as fiction in my older age:

Journey to the End of the Night, by Celine. Dark and poetic.. If you enjoy dark humor, this is it.

Robert Heinlein is great for science fiction. I discovered him and read all of his books. He would be considered a libertarian now, but his books were controversial at the time. Spectacular mind on that guy

The Black Company spoke to me though. A band of mercenaries, with all their flaws, having to fight powerful sorcerers. I read 5 books in 2 months
 

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Here's a good list from the community

Some of those are solid for sure (Aaron Clarey's for instance) but it's mostly PUA and self help which is cringe in excess.... Guess it depends what your goals are, are we assuming the reader is only interested in improving success with women? Regardless, these strike me as prototypical 'bro' books that aren't particularly well rounded but are mostly pontifications and ideological, matter-of-fact prose from randos that could all be the same person. How about some evolutionary biology/psychology/philosophy or some left fielders such as "Women" by Charles Bukowksi?
 
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Some of those are solid for sure (Aaron Clarey's for instance) but it's mostly PUA and self help which is cringe in excess.... Guess it depends what your goals are, are we assuming the reader is only interested in improving success with women? Regardless, these strike me as prototypical 'bro' books that aren't particularly well rounded but are mostly pontifications and ideological, matter-of-fact prose from randos that could all be the same person. How about some evolutionary biology/psychology/philosophy or some left fielders such as "Women" by Charles Bukowksi?
Not bro books at all. They encompass the idea at SS.
 
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