steves2kool
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I get hard whenever am talking to girls I like....I try to hide but am kinda worried she might end up seeing it. Does anyone know how I can control this?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Boner...at the wrong time!!!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Livinlifehard
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think about ****ing a ugly chick... or think about your mom naked...
MissionX
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Ewww lol, just uhhh, flick it it will go down
PleasureKing
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i usually just imagine something so i dont worry about it. it goes away fast then. try imagining your doing something scary, like skydiving, or on a rollercoaster. whatever you do, dont imagine the girl giving you a BJ or something, hahaha.
steves2kool
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Thnx
Ill try that next time I talk to her
Ill try that next time I talk to her
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HollowHorizon
Senior Don Juan
Yeah ive actully had my golfer pop out ............DAM YOUR A MAN, DONT PUSS IT, LET IT HANNNNGGGG
realsmoothie
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LOL I was going to say that, too...Aaron B said:
...and notice how old we are, Aaron. D'oh!
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Master Don Juan
As you are talking to her, place both your hands on top of your crotch with pressure to prevent it from going up. That way, she'll never suspect that you have a boner
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dude I did a thread on this too. know one had any good ideas. I tried everything and it won't go down. except the duct tape thing. Let me tell you it really sucks at the beach and pool!
here it is http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115038
here it is http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115038
KarmaSutra
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The only times which I consider poor for having an erection are when you're in church or at a job interview. Anything else is fair game.
Flabbergasped?
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If you're both clothed, just use the boner to fuel your Gunwitch-esque sexual state.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don't worry about it. You're a man. But if you absolutely needed to get rid of a boner for some reason just do math out in your head. The harder the math the less hard you become.
But you really shouldn't worry about it. I was finishing up my first approach last week when I went to get a pen from my pocket and realized I had a giant boner. The pants I was wearing kind of made it a pain to get the pen (Then paper) out so the entire time I would occasionally look up to see her looking at my crotch. Things are going smoothly so I can only assume it doesn't do anything to hurt you.
But you really shouldn't worry about it. I was finishing up my first approach last week when I went to get a pen from my pocket and realized I had a giant boner. The pants I was wearing kind of made it a pain to get the pen (Then paper) out so the entire time I would occasionally look up to see her looking at my crotch. Things are going smoothly so I can only assume it doesn't do anything to hurt you.
logicallefty
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Think about someone taking a long thin straight piece of glass and shoving it up your pee hole.. Your happy guy will be gone in about 10 seconds. I know it sounds sick but it works.
I remember back one time when I was 13 and I was in middle school, and we were watching a movie in class and the lights were turned off, and a girl that was sitting in a desk in front of me turned around and rested her feet on my crotch. Eventually, I got a hard on and it started popping through my pants, and she felt it on her foot, and when she did, she looked at me and smiled, kind of blushing. She liked it. So, come on man, be a man, she knows you have a ****, so don't be afraid to be a man! She will at least respect you then.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.