steves2kool
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 1, 2007
- Messages
- 17
- Reaction score
- 0
I get hard whenever am talking to girls I like....I try to hide but am kinda worried she might end up seeing it. Does anyone know how I can control this?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Boner...at the wrong time!!!
- Thread starter steves2kool
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Livinlifehard
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 19, 2006
- Messages
- 172
- Reaction score
- 0
think about ****ing a ugly chick... or think about your mom naked...
MissionX
Don Juan
Ewww lol, just uhhh, flick it it will go down
PleasureKing
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 14, 2006
- Messages
- 175
- Reaction score
- 1
i usually just imagine something so i dont worry about it. it goes away fast then. try imagining your doing something scary, like skydiving, or on a rollercoaster. whatever you do, dont imagine the girl giving you a BJ or something, hahaha.
steves2kool
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 1, 2007
- Messages
- 17
- Reaction score
- 0
Thnx
Ill try that next time I talk to her
Ill try that next time I talk to her
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
HollowHorizon
Senior Don Juan
Yeah ive actully had my golfer pop out ............DAM YOUR A MAN, DONT PUSS IT, LET IT HANNNNGGGG
realsmoothie
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 30, 2006
- Messages
- 1,064
- Reaction score
- 9
LOL I was going to say that, too...Aaron B said:
...and notice how old we are, Aaron. D'oh!
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
As you are talking to her, place both your hands on top of your crotch with pressure to prevent it from going up. That way, she'll never suspect that you have a boner
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dude I did a thread on this too. know one had any good ideas. I tried everything and it won't go down. except the duct tape thing. Let me tell you it really sucks at the beach and pool!
here it is http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115038
here it is http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115038
KarmaSutra
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2005
- Messages
- 4,818
- Reaction score
- 142
- Age
- 53
The only times which I consider poor for having an erection are when you're in church or at a job interview. Anything else is fair game.
Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 14, 2005
- Messages
- 539
- Reaction score
- 12
If you're both clothed, just use the boner to fuel your Gunwitch-esque sexual state.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Don't worry about it. You're a man. But if you absolutely needed to get rid of a boner for some reason just do math out in your head. The harder the math the less hard you become.
But you really shouldn't worry about it. I was finishing up my first approach last week when I went to get a pen from my pocket and realized I had a giant boner. The pants I was wearing kind of made it a pain to get the pen (Then paper) out so the entire time I would occasionally look up to see her looking at my crotch. Things are going smoothly so I can only assume it doesn't do anything to hurt you.
But you really shouldn't worry about it. I was finishing up my first approach last week when I went to get a pen from my pocket and realized I had a giant boner. The pants I was wearing kind of made it a pain to get the pen (Then paper) out so the entire time I would occasionally look up to see her looking at my crotch. Things are going smoothly so I can only assume it doesn't do anything to hurt you.
logicallefty
Moderator
Think about someone taking a long thin straight piece of glass and shoving it up your pee hole.. Your happy guy will be gone in about 10 seconds. I know it sounds sick but it works.
I remember back one time when I was 13 and I was in middle school, and we were watching a movie in class and the lights were turned off, and a girl that was sitting in a desk in front of me turned around and rested her feet on my crotch. Eventually, I got a hard on and it started popping through my pants, and she felt it on her foot, and when she did, she looked at me and smiled, kind of blushing. She liked it. So, come on man, be a man, she knows you have a ****, so don't be afraid to be a man! She will at least respect you then.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.