"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Body or face?

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Mjazz

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Im just curious, would you guys rather date a girl with a super hot body but ok face or a girl with a super nice face and ok body?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jay Jay

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I come to sites like this

so I never have to make that kinda compromise.
 
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Randallpink83

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FACE by far.... I decide wether a girl is pretty or ugly by how her face looks... Sometims even "Thicker" girls with REALLY pretty faces, I will still consider them very pretty... (with big boobs and asses and thighs.. lol)

Yeah its all about the face for me!

But I dont neglect the body by any means.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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qweretyuiopas

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Im a face man, I love a good body too, and wouldnt mind an ok face but a good body, but if she ug in the face I dont care if her body a 10 I aint wit it
 
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Face, but the body has to be ok-cant be an ug!
 
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rakishness

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For a long term relationship....the face is more important. For the short term the body is MUCH more important. In bed....the body is what makes the difference.:D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don Juan Montoya

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Body of course. If a chick has a cute face & cruddy body, she can get really fat.........if she is skinny, she has less of a chance of getting fat.......i would much rather have a chick that has rosanne barr's face & jessica alba body instead of vice versa........
 
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rakishness

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Its hard to tell if a girl has a hot body in the winter time. In the winter girls cover up more. Or sometimes in the summer they mayl wear baggy clothes. Have you ever met a girl whose body looked "ok" with clothes on but was UNBELIEVABLE without clothes? I have.....it can be shocking.
 
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PheonixUK

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I would say face is way more important then body

With just exercise and toning a woman can move from a 3 body to a 7 body
What exercises do you know that can turn a 3 face into a 7 face?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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