"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Body or face?

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Mjazz

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Im just curious, would you guys rather date a girl with a super hot body but ok face or a girl with a super nice face and ok body?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I come to sites like this

so I never have to make that kinda compromise.
 
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FACE by far.... I decide wether a girl is pretty or ugly by how her face looks... Sometims even "Thicker" girls with REALLY pretty faces, I will still consider them very pretty... (with big boobs and asses and thighs.. lol)

Yeah its all about the face for me!

But I dont neglect the body by any means.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im a face man, I love a good body too, and wouldnt mind an ok face but a good body, but if she ug in the face I dont care if her body a 10 I aint wit it
 
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Face, but the body has to be ok-cant be an ug!
 
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rakishness

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For a long term relationship....the face is more important. For the short term the body is MUCH more important. In bed....the body is what makes the difference.:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Body of course. If a chick has a cute face & cruddy body, she can get really fat.........if she is skinny, she has less of a chance of getting fat.......i would much rather have a chick that has rosanne barr's face & jessica alba body instead of vice versa........
 
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Its hard to tell if a girl has a hot body in the winter time. In the winter girls cover up more. Or sometimes in the summer they mayl wear baggy clothes. Have you ever met a girl whose body looked "ok" with clothes on but was UNBELIEVABLE without clothes? I have.....it can be shocking.
 
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I would say face is way more important then body

With just exercise and toning a woman can move from a 3 body to a 7 body
What exercises do you know that can turn a 3 face into a 7 face?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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