"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Body or face?

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Mjazz

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Im just curious, would you guys rather date a girl with a super hot body but ok face or a girl with a super nice face and ok body?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jay Jay

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I come to sites like this

so I never have to make that kinda compromise.
 
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Randallpink83

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FACE by far.... I decide wether a girl is pretty or ugly by how her face looks... Sometims even "Thicker" girls with REALLY pretty faces, I will still consider them very pretty... (with big boobs and asses and thighs.. lol)

Yeah its all about the face for me!

But I dont neglect the body by any means.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im a face man, I love a good body too, and wouldnt mind an ok face but a good body, but if she ug in the face I dont care if her body a 10 I aint wit it
 
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Face, but the body has to be ok-cant be an ug!
 
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rakishness

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For a long term relationship....the face is more important. For the short term the body is MUCH more important. In bed....the body is what makes the difference.:D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Body of course. If a chick has a cute face & cruddy body, she can get really fat.........if she is skinny, she has less of a chance of getting fat.......i would much rather have a chick that has rosanne barr's face & jessica alba body instead of vice versa........
 
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Its hard to tell if a girl has a hot body in the winter time. In the winter girls cover up more. Or sometimes in the summer they mayl wear baggy clothes. Have you ever met a girl whose body looked "ok" with clothes on but was UNBELIEVABLE without clothes? I have.....it can be shocking.
 
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PheonixUK

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I would say face is way more important then body

With just exercise and toning a woman can move from a 3 body to a 7 body
What exercises do you know that can turn a 3 face into a 7 face?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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