You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
1. People tend to stand and walk with a slack stomach and hunched shoulders; their backs are crooked and their hips lopsided.
2. As a man and woman come in close visual range they both pull in their stomachs, throw out their shoulders, puff out their chests, lift their head up to appear taller and generally attempt to make themseleves appear sleeker and more youthful.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sounds interesting... im gonna give this a shot... like it was mentioned before it is partly inside your head (inner game). if you feel confident chances are that it will reflect on your gate.Canadian Catnip said:I have been experimenting with how I walk as well. I heard this piece of good advice and it seems to work.
Wherever you are, act like you own the place. If you walk into a bar, imagine you're the owner. How would you walk if you were the owner?
In the mall, same thing. Walk around like you just built this incredible cool mall for everyone else to enjoy.
On the street. This is your street, you built it, you own it.
Whenever I remember to think like this I notice my walk changes.
I once told a friend I was walking with about this and he tried it for a minute and I could see his walk get a lot better.
Give it a try and think like this next time you are walking and see if your inner thinking changes how you walk.