"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bodily Functions - The other form of body language she's really into you.

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A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes they're really feeling.

So, have any of your past GFs open themselves up to you? How many months or years of comfort building did it take? Did you think of this as her really loving you or just being gross?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Funny. I thought you were leaving this site, yet here you are.
 
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Ummmm

I would Really would like to see my girl show how really into me she is through other ways. Ways that I wont be grossed out by.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Special T said:
A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes they're really feeling.

So, have any of your past GFs open themselves up to you? How many months or years of comfort building did it take? Did you think of this as her really loving you or just being gross?
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Very gross and distugsting.If she let one on accident well thats another story i guess? This is one thing that should be left in private talk about a sex turn off?? I dont want my gf in the bathroom while im taking a shet hell no!!!!!
 
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Iceberg said:
Funny. I thought you were leaving this site, yet here you are.
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Am I bothering you that much? How about you 'no contact' me.
 
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Very gross and distugsting.If she let one on accident well thats another story i guess? This is one thing that should be left in private talk about a sex turn off?? I dont want my gf in the bathroom while im taking a shet hell no!!!!!
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he never said anything about her being in the bathroom when you were crapping. he said her take a crap at your place
 
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If it's an emergency... I don't mind.
It happens. I'd rather her use my bathroom than to mess up all over herself or on me later in the night. :cool:
 
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