"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bodily Functions - The other form of body language she's really into you.

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A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes they're really feeling.

So, have any of your past GFs open themselves up to you? How many months or years of comfort building did it take? Did you think of this as her really loving you or just being gross?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Funny. I thought you were leaving this site, yet here you are.
 
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Ummmm

I would Really would like to see my girl show how really into me she is through other ways. Ways that I wont be grossed out by.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Special T said:
A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes they're really feeling.

So, have any of your past GFs open themselves up to you? How many months or years of comfort building did it take? Did you think of this as her really loving you or just being gross?
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Very gross and distugsting.If she let one on accident well thats another story i guess? This is one thing that should be left in private talk about a sex turn off?? I dont want my gf in the bathroom while im taking a shet hell no!!!!!
 
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Iceberg said:
Funny. I thought you were leaving this site, yet here you are.
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Am I bothering you that much? How about you 'no contact' me.
 
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catman said:
Very gross and distugsting.If she let one on accident well thats another story i guess? This is one thing that should be left in private talk about a sex turn off?? I dont want my gf in the bathroom while im taking a shet hell no!!!!!
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he never said anything about her being in the bathroom when you were crapping. he said her take a crap at your place
 
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If it's an emergency... I don't mind.
It happens. I'd rather her use my bathroom than to mess up all over herself or on me later in the night. :cool:
 
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