Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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JackBauer24

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Talking to a pretty/chubby girl. Want her to go down on me. She says she only does sexual stuff if she's in a relationship. Doesn't even kiss on the first date most of the time. Wants a serious relationship. I told her straight out I'm not going to be her boyfriend just to get head. Has agreed to meet me, however, for a "date." She said that she thinks I'm cute, so that's obviously good.

1.)Where do I take her, to make it clear that it's nothing fancy and I'm not her future boyfriend?

2.)Is she likely to change her mind about the blow job once she sees me in person?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JackBauer24 said:
1.)Where do I take her, to make it clear that it's nothing fancy and I'm not her future boyfriend?

2.)Is she likely to change her mind about the blow job once she sees me in person?
If you bring her to a place where they serve alcohol you might kill two birds with one stone.
 

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DonGordon...thanks for your useless response.

DJDamage...she's a drinker...that's perfect, man. Thank you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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And getting one drunk to blow you...well that just doesn't speak well for you.
 

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DonGordon...who cares about "social proof" if I'm going to some bar I never go to.

Rhoto...desperate times call for desperate measures. And if you were dating/f*cking a HB10, you wouldn't be on this site.
 

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I'm actually sleeping with 5 different women at the moment, and 2 that are angry at me for seeing other women, but still send me texts at twilight telling me about how their boy friends suck, or that they want to hang out. All different and very good looking.

There are guys on this site getting ass every 2 hours, just so you know, not every one is "desperate." And I'm on this site because its fun, and kills time in between *****y clients.

Don't put yourself down that much.
 

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JackBauer24 said:
2.)Is she likely to change her mind about the blow job once she sees me in person?
so if you ve never even seen this girl, how did you ask her about the bj? over the phone? online?

btw, if you haven't seen her in person and you think she s "chubby", chances are she s a fvcking whale
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Talking to the chubby girl on the phone, I learned I have a lot of work to do. My brother was listening to the phone call and said I sounded incredibly nervous at first and that I said "I dunno" repeatedly.
 

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Anyone can say that over a computer, Rhoto. Until I see the pictures with you in them, you're just another KJ.
 

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Rubbed one out and I feel better...for now. Masturbation is a stun-gun. The desperation goes away for ten minutes, until I'm on myspace again dirty talking another fat chick.

I probably wouldn't even notice the chubby girl in real life, but for some reason, when I'm at home, I'm resorting to all kinds of desperate tactics. See "Internet Compulsions" thread for a more in-depth explanation.
 

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JackBauer24 said:
Rubbed one out and I feel better...for now. Masturbation is a stun-gun. The desperation goes away for ten minutes, until I'm on myspace again dirty talking another fat chick.

I probably wouldn't even notice the chubby girl in real life, but for some reason, when I'm at home, I'm resorting to all kinds of desperate tactics. See "Internet Compulsions" thread for a more in-depth explanation.
WOW!...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That's the funny thing, I cold approched this 30 year old (HB9-10)...my first cold approach in over 6 years. I was admittedly nervous...but did a hell of a lot better than on the phone. She was walking by, overwhelmed by her shopping bags, so I smile at her and say "Hi" she says "Hi" I say "You look like your about to trip over yourself or your bags." She says "I'm shopping for an outfit...blah blah blah" and she gave me her myspace because she said she's on myspace more often than she's on the phone, and we've been talking. Still, because it's not progressing fast enough, I found that chubby girl and probably would have met her for a BJ today if she agreed.
 
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