Filmmaker
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have seen three times now one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen in the world -- the problem is she is blind -- I'm about to approach her and was wondering if there is anything special I should do.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Blind Date
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
that's a tough one, dont know what to tell ya 
b's nuts
Master Don Juan
while she could be more shy than most girls, i would just approach her like any other girl (for fvcks sake don't sneak up on her). People with disabilities do not like to be treated differently than anyone else. Although you will definately need to take this a little slow, and she will have to trust you before she will let you take her anywhere im sure (since she won't know where you are driving her, etc). Try just hanging out with her in a casual atmosphere not a date at first cuz its definately going to be hard to get her to trust you. You could definately kino this girl and im sure she will respond well to it since it will help her know where you are, etc. Probably not going to be a good movie date (wich you shouldn't do anyways) or anything like mini golf (wich I also think is gay) but im sure you can score a coffee date with her. Your verbal game is going to have to be pretty tight, cuz your looks aren't going to score you any points here.
One last thing, don't treat her like shes a charity case to be dating or anything, pimp her like any other girl.
One last thing, don't treat her like shes a charity case to be dating or anything, pimp her like any other girl.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
hUh?? are you trying to bang a blind chick?? something not right about that.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
hey man...on the date, bring up the subject of movies and ask her what movies shes seen....shell love ya for that!! LOL j/p , that was an evil joke...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Filmmaker
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Blind Date -- Still trying
Ken 785 -- Your suggestion about the movies may not be a bad thing since I found she listens to them -- saw her at my gym today -- I had to stare in awe -- but anyhow Ken 785 I'm not trying to bang her -- I want to meet her and no I don't want to be just her friend -- I think having worked around people who are blind and deaf they want to be loved and respected just like everyone else -- but I think they as b's nuts suggest it needs to be taken slow -- thanks everyone for your advice -- I think though I am going to tell her she has the most beautiful eyes because she does. Anyhow she was working on the treadmill today -- I'm impressed -- she is a strong woman.
Ken 785 -- Your suggestion about the movies may not be a bad thing since I found she listens to them -- saw her at my gym today -- I had to stare in awe -- but anyhow Ken 785 I'm not trying to bang her -- I want to meet her and no I don't want to be just her friend -- I think having worked around people who are blind and deaf they want to be loved and respected just like everyone else -- but I think they as b's nuts suggest it needs to be taken slow -- thanks everyone for your advice -- I think though I am going to tell her she has the most beautiful eyes because she does. Anyhow she was working on the treadmill today -- I'm impressed -- she is a strong woman.
Seizing The Day
Don Juan
go to a sex toy shop and buy one of those giant dildos.
hold it out, let her feel it..........say " this is me"
hold it out, let her feel it..........say " this is me"
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
LOL!
Seeing that you're probably the only guy that will have showed any interest in her, there wont' be any compition, and she will probably be grateful for getting a guy. Just make sure you have a cool voice and you're set.
Seeing that you're probably the only guy that will have showed any interest in her, there wont' be any compition, and she will probably be grateful for getting a guy. Just make sure you have a cool voice and you're set.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.