"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Blind Date

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have seen three times now one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen in the world -- the problem is she is blind -- I'm about to approach her and was wondering if there is anything special I should do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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while she could be more shy than most girls, i would just approach her like any other girl (for fvcks sake don't sneak up on her). People with disabilities do not like to be treated differently than anyone else. Although you will definately need to take this a little slow, and she will have to trust you before she will let you take her anywhere im sure (since she won't know where you are driving her, etc). Try just hanging out with her in a casual atmosphere not a date at first cuz its definately going to be hard to get her to trust you. You could definately kino this girl and im sure she will respond well to it since it will help her know where you are, etc. Probably not going to be a good movie date (wich you shouldn't do anyways) or anything like mini golf (wich I also think is gay) but im sure you can score a coffee date with her. Your verbal game is going to have to be pretty tight, cuz your looks aren't going to score you any points here.

One last thing, don't treat her like shes a charity case to be dating or anything, pimp her like any other girl.
 

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hUh?? are you trying to bang a blind chick?? something not right about that.
 

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hey man...on the date, bring up the subject of movies and ask her what movies shes seen....shell love ya for that!! LOL j/p , that was an evil joke...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Blind Date -- Still trying

Ken 785 -- Your suggestion about the movies may not be a bad thing since I found she listens to them -- saw her at my gym today -- I had to stare in awe -- but anyhow Ken 785 I'm not trying to bang her -- I want to meet her and no I don't want to be just her friend -- I think having worked around people who are blind and deaf they want to be loved and respected just like everyone else -- but I think they as b's nuts suggest it needs to be taken slow -- thanks everyone for your advice -- I think though I am going to tell her she has the most beautiful eyes because she does. Anyhow she was working on the treadmill today -- I'm impressed -- she is a strong woman.
 

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Reminds me of that Nip/Tuck episode where Christian is falling for that blind chick. I never watched any following episodes.
 

Seizing The Day

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go to a sex toy shop and buy one of those giant dildos.

hold it out, let her feel it..........say " this is me"

:D
 

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LOL!

Seeing that you're probably the only guy that will have showed any interest in her, there wont' be any compition, and she will probably be grateful for getting a guy. Just make sure you have a cool voice and you're set.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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