Filmmaker
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have seen three times now one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen in the world -- the problem is she is blind -- I'm about to approach her and was wondering if there is anything special I should do.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Blind Date
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- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
that's a tough one, dont know what to tell ya 
b's nuts
Master Don Juan
while she could be more shy than most girls, i would just approach her like any other girl (for fvcks sake don't sneak up on her). People with disabilities do not like to be treated differently than anyone else. Although you will definately need to take this a little slow, and she will have to trust you before she will let you take her anywhere im sure (since she won't know where you are driving her, etc). Try just hanging out with her in a casual atmosphere not a date at first cuz its definately going to be hard to get her to trust you. You could definately kino this girl and im sure she will respond well to it since it will help her know where you are, etc. Probably not going to be a good movie date (wich you shouldn't do anyways) or anything like mini golf (wich I also think is gay) but im sure you can score a coffee date with her. Your verbal game is going to have to be pretty tight, cuz your looks aren't going to score you any points here.
One last thing, don't treat her like shes a charity case to be dating or anything, pimp her like any other girl.
One last thing, don't treat her like shes a charity case to be dating or anything, pimp her like any other girl.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
hUh?? are you trying to bang a blind chick?? something not right about that.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
hey man...on the date, bring up the subject of movies and ask her what movies shes seen....shell love ya for that!! LOL j/p , that was an evil joke...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Filmmaker
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Blind Date -- Still trying
Ken 785 -- Your suggestion about the movies may not be a bad thing since I found she listens to them -- saw her at my gym today -- I had to stare in awe -- but anyhow Ken 785 I'm not trying to bang her -- I want to meet her and no I don't want to be just her friend -- I think having worked around people who are blind and deaf they want to be loved and respected just like everyone else -- but I think they as b's nuts suggest it needs to be taken slow -- thanks everyone for your advice -- I think though I am going to tell her she has the most beautiful eyes because she does. Anyhow she was working on the treadmill today -- I'm impressed -- she is a strong woman.
Ken 785 -- Your suggestion about the movies may not be a bad thing since I found she listens to them -- saw her at my gym today -- I had to stare in awe -- but anyhow Ken 785 I'm not trying to bang her -- I want to meet her and no I don't want to be just her friend -- I think having worked around people who are blind and deaf they want to be loved and respected just like everyone else -- but I think they as b's nuts suggest it needs to be taken slow -- thanks everyone for your advice -- I think though I am going to tell her she has the most beautiful eyes because she does. Anyhow she was working on the treadmill today -- I'm impressed -- she is a strong woman.
Seizing The Day
Don Juan
go to a sex toy shop and buy one of those giant dildos.
hold it out, let her feel it..........say " this is me"
hold it out, let her feel it..........say " this is me"
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
LOL!
Seeing that you're probably the only guy that will have showed any interest in her, there wont' be any compition, and she will probably be grateful for getting a guy. Just make sure you have a cool voice and you're set.
Seeing that you're probably the only guy that will have showed any interest in her, there wont' be any compition, and she will probably be grateful for getting a guy. Just make sure you have a cool voice and you're set.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.