I am a white male, and I am about as "white" in every way imaginable , from appearance to the way I act. I've noticed, though, that I tend to attract black women way more than white women. They tend to give me SOI a lot more and when they do, the signs are pretty obvious (ie. smiling, second glances, playing with hair, etc.) I can't figure out why I seem to attract them. Are there certain things black women like in white males that I am exhibiting. If only I could follow through and make something come of it...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Black Women and White Men
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I recall this ode to black women:
Smokie - Yeah. Older the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Craig - Man, it's the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Smokie - Yeah, well, yeah. She blacker than a motherfvcker too.
You better get you some of the sweet juice. I do.
Smokie - Yeah. Older the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Craig - Man, it's the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Smokie - Yeah, well, yeah. She blacker than a motherfvcker too.
You better get you some of the sweet juice. I do.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm white and have been married to - count em - 2 black women. Also have had a couple of black gfs. Yep, they like white guys. I can speculate as to the reason but why bother.
However, in my experience, I should say that African American women are no different from Caucasian American women - same problems and bs. So, don't think you're avoiding that by having a black gf.
However, in my experience, I should say that African American women are no different from Caucasian American women - same problems and bs. So, don't think you're avoiding that by having a black gf.