I am a white male, and I am about as "white" in every way imaginable , from appearance to the way I act. I've noticed, though, that I tend to attract black women way more than white women. They tend to give me SOI a lot more and when they do, the signs are pretty obvious (ie. smiling, second glances, playing with hair, etc.) I can't figure out why I seem to attract them. Are there certain things black women like in white males that I am exhibiting. If only I could follow through and make something come of it...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Black Women and White Men
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I recall this ode to black women:
Smokie - Yeah. Older the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Craig - Man, it's the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Smokie - Yeah, well, yeah. She blacker than a motherfvcker too.
You better get you some of the sweet juice. I do.
Smokie - Yeah. Older the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Craig - Man, it's the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Smokie - Yeah, well, yeah. She blacker than a motherfvcker too.
You better get you some of the sweet juice. I do.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm white and have been married to - count em - 2 black women. Also have had a couple of black gfs. Yep, they like white guys. I can speculate as to the reason but why bother.
However, in my experience, I should say that African American women are no different from Caucasian American women - same problems and bs. So, don't think you're avoiding that by having a black gf.
However, in my experience, I should say that African American women are no different from Caucasian American women - same problems and bs. So, don't think you're avoiding that by having a black gf.