I am a white male, and I am about as "white" in every way imaginable , from appearance to the way I act. I've noticed, though, that I tend to attract black women way more than white women. They tend to give me SOI a lot more and when they do, the signs are pretty obvious (ie. smiling, second glances, playing with hair, etc.) I can't figure out why I seem to attract them. Are there certain things black women like in white males that I am exhibiting. If only I could follow through and make something come of it...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Black Women and White Men
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I recall this ode to black women:
Smokie - Yeah. Older the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Craig - Man, it's the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Smokie - Yeah, well, yeah. She blacker than a motherfvcker too.
You better get you some of the sweet juice. I do.
Smokie - Yeah. Older the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Craig - Man, it's the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Smokie - Yeah, well, yeah. She blacker than a motherfvcker too.
You better get you some of the sweet juice. I do.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm white and have been married to - count em - 2 black women. Also have had a couple of black gfs. Yep, they like white guys. I can speculate as to the reason but why bother.
However, in my experience, I should say that African American women are no different from Caucasian American women - same problems and bs. So, don't think you're avoiding that by having a black gf.
However, in my experience, I should say that African American women are no different from Caucasian American women - same problems and bs. So, don't think you're avoiding that by having a black gf.