I am a white male, and I am about as "white" in every way imaginable , from appearance to the way I act. I've noticed, though, that I tend to attract black women way more than white women. They tend to give me SOI a lot more and when they do, the signs are pretty obvious (ie. smiling, second glances, playing with hair, etc.) I can't figure out why I seem to attract them. Are there certain things black women like in white males that I am exhibiting. If only I could follow through and make something come of it...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Black Women and White Men
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I recall this ode to black women:
Smokie - Yeah. Older the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Craig - Man, it's the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Smokie - Yeah, well, yeah. She blacker than a motherfvcker too.
You better get you some of the sweet juice. I do.
Smokie - Yeah. Older the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Craig - Man, it's the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Smokie - Yeah, well, yeah. She blacker than a motherfvcker too.
You better get you some of the sweet juice. I do.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm white and have been married to - count em - 2 black women. Also have had a couple of black gfs. Yep, they like white guys. I can speculate as to the reason but why bother.
However, in my experience, I should say that African American women are no different from Caucasian American women - same problems and bs. So, don't think you're avoiding that by having a black gf.
However, in my experience, I should say that African American women are no different from Caucasian American women - same problems and bs. So, don't think you're avoiding that by having a black gf.