"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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612_Da_Playa

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There's this girl at my school I'm trying to get at. Best looking girl in the school easy. 5'8''/Tan complexion, exotic eyes, curly long brown hair with black highlights/brown eyes/slim waist/preppy clothing--I mean she's that deal and the other girls know it too. I C+F her, I mean I do that naturally to girls, even before I knew about this site. It works too brings her back down to earth. The things is: I don't know if she still has a boyfriend ya know? I can't just straight up ask her or else I'll show interest. What do you guys suggest? Also what do you suggest to build her interest? I have rapport with her at school, make her laugh and what not but I can't get it beyond school :crazy: :confused: :mad:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alkali

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She doesn't have a boyfriend until she tells you she does.
 
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DonJuan11

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The only difference between a white and black girl is when a black girl says "does my butt look big?" you say "hell yeah!"
 
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War Against Betaism

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I usually find an indirect way of finding out, like if we're waiting somewhere, I'll ask her, "So who you waiting for, your boyfriend?" Most of the time I've said this I got a direct answer, but there have been times when they actually just laughed and said "no". I've used this other line. If a girl I was talking to gets a call, after they hang up, I'll ask them "So was that your boyfriend?" The problem I've had with this line is that 75% of the time they won't give you a direct answer. I usually get lines like "Haha no, just a friend."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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xdreamz

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just forget the whole concept of her having a boyfriend and go for what you want with respect to what she wants
 
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