"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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612_Da_Playa

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There's this girl at my school I'm trying to get at. Best looking girl in the school easy. 5'8''/Tan complexion, exotic eyes, curly long brown hair with black highlights/brown eyes/slim waist/preppy clothing--I mean she's that deal and the other girls know it too. I C+F her, I mean I do that naturally to girls, even before I knew about this site. It works too brings her back down to earth. The things is: I don't know if she still has a boyfriend ya know? I can't just straight up ask her or else I'll show interest. What do you guys suggest? Also what do you suggest to build her interest? I have rapport with her at school, make her laugh and what not but I can't get it beyond school :crazy: :confused: :mad:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alkali

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She doesn't have a boyfriend until she tells you she does.
 
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DonJuan11

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The only difference between a white and black girl is when a black girl says "does my butt look big?" you say "hell yeah!"
 
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War Against Betaism

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I usually find an indirect way of finding out, like if we're waiting somewhere, I'll ask her, "So who you waiting for, your boyfriend?" Most of the time I've said this I got a direct answer, but there have been times when they actually just laughed and said "no". I've used this other line. If a girl I was talking to gets a call, after they hang up, I'll ask them "So was that your boyfriend?" The problem I've had with this line is that 75% of the time they won't give you a direct answer. I usually get lines like "Haha no, just a friend."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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just forget the whole concept of her having a boyfriend and go for what you want with respect to what she wants
 
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