"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Black Guy + Asian Girl

612_Da_Playa

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There's this girl at my school I'm trying to get at. Best looking girl in the school easy. 5'8''/Tan complexion, exotic eyes, curly long brown hair with black highlights/brown eyes/slim waist/preppy clothing--I mean she's that deal and the other girls know it too. I C+F her, I mean I do that naturally to girls, even before I knew about this site. It works too brings her back down to earth. The things is: I don't know if she still has a boyfriend ya know? I can't just straight up ask her or else I'll show interest. What do you guys suggest? Also what do you suggest to build her interest? I have rapport with her at school, make her laugh and what not but I can't get it beyond school :crazy: :confused: :mad:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alkali

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She doesn't have a boyfriend until she tells you she does.
 

DonJuan11

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The only difference between a white and black girl is when a black girl says "does my butt look big?" you say "hell yeah!"
 

War Against Betaism

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I usually find an indirect way of finding out, like if we're waiting somewhere, I'll ask her, "So who you waiting for, your boyfriend?" Most of the time I've said this I got a direct answer, but there have been times when they actually just laughed and said "no". I've used this other line. If a girl I was talking to gets a call, after they hang up, I'll ask them "So was that your boyfriend?" The problem I've had with this line is that 75% of the time they won't give you a direct answer. I usually get lines like "Haha no, just a friend."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xdreamz

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just forget the whole concept of her having a boyfriend and go for what you want with respect to what she wants
 
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