"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There's this girl at my school I'm trying to get at. Best looking girl in the school easy. 5'8''/Tan complexion, exotic eyes, curly long brown hair with black highlights/brown eyes/slim waist/preppy clothing--I mean she's that deal and the other girls know it too. I C+F her, I mean I do that naturally to girls, even before I knew about this site. It works too brings her back down to earth. The things is: I don't know if she still has a boyfriend ya know? I can't just straight up ask her or else I'll show interest. What do you guys suggest? Also what do you suggest to build her interest? I have rapport with her at school, make her laugh and what not but I can't get it beyond school :crazy: :confused: :mad:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She doesn't have a boyfriend until she tells you she does.
 
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The only difference between a white and black girl is when a black girl says "does my butt look big?" you say "hell yeah!"
 
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War Against Betaism

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I usually find an indirect way of finding out, like if we're waiting somewhere, I'll ask her, "So who you waiting for, your boyfriend?" Most of the time I've said this I got a direct answer, but there have been times when they actually just laughed and said "no". I've used this other line. If a girl I was talking to gets a call, after they hang up, I'll ask them "So was that your boyfriend?" The problem I've had with this line is that 75% of the time they won't give you a direct answer. I usually get lines like "Haha no, just a friend."
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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just forget the whole concept of her having a boyfriend and go for what you want with respect to what she wants
 
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