You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Never banged a dark skin black girl myself, so I'm looking forward to your report. My guess though is that the smell of a girl's poon is determined by nothing more than that particular girl's hygiene habits. Let us know what happens.yoimjamie said:
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speakeasy said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Why would a woman's vagina stink because of her skin color? You know, I have no problem calling you an idiot, but I thought speakeasy was a smarter person...yoimjamie said:
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In fairness, differences in dietary habits can produce different smells. I know when I walk into an Asian person's house, it smells different than a white or black person's house. Not because of their race per se, but because they tend to cook with ingredients unique to their culture and the smell of those ingredients can effect body smell. For example, girls will say a dude's jizz often tastes like whatever he was eating. So what you eat might have an effect on smell too.TyTe`EyEz said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I fail to see how i've been anything but rational.DonGorgon said:
yes, and in truth this is by far the dominant influence as opposed to race. But race definitely does have a contributive effect. And given the direct evidence i've seen (none, either backing or to the contrary), it would make no rational sense for me to dismiss such a widespread rumour.speakeasy said:
Just because they call it purple cabbage doesn't mean it smells as such.yoimjamie said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
All humans are the same its their environment that is different and affects the organism.. Think..yoimjamie said:
San Jose California said: