You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Never banged a dark skin black girl myself, so I'm looking forward to your report. My guess though is that the smell of a girl's poon is determined by nothing more than that particular girl's hygiene habits. Let us know what happens.yoimjamie said:
yoimjamie said:
speakeasy said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Why would a woman's vagina stink because of her skin color? You know, I have no problem calling you an idiot, but I thought speakeasy was a smarter person...yoimjamie said:
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yoimjamie said:
In fairness, differences in dietary habits can produce different smells. I know when I walk into an Asian person's house, it smells different than a white or black person's house. Not because of their race per se, but because they tend to cook with ingredients unique to their culture and the smell of those ingredients can effect body smell. For example, girls will say a dude's jizz often tastes like whatever he was eating. So what you eat might have an effect on smell too.TyTe`EyEz said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I fail to see how i've been anything but rational.DonGorgon said:
yes, and in truth this is by far the dominant influence as opposed to race. But race definitely does have a contributive effect. And given the direct evidence i've seen (none, either backing or to the contrary), it would make no rational sense for me to dismiss such a widespread rumour.speakeasy said:
Just because they call it purple cabbage doesn't mean it smells as such.yoimjamie said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
All humans are the same its their environment that is different and affects the organism.. Think..yoimjamie said:
San Jose California said: