That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Never banged a dark skin black girl myself, so I'm looking forward to your report. My guess though is that the smell of a girl's poon is determined by nothing more than that particular girl's hygiene habits. Let us know what happens.yoimjamie said:
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speakeasy said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why would a woman's vagina stink because of her skin color? You know, I have no problem calling you an idiot, but I thought speakeasy was a smarter person...yoimjamie said:
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In fairness, differences in dietary habits can produce different smells. I know when I walk into an Asian person's house, it smells different than a white or black person's house. Not because of their race per se, but because they tend to cook with ingredients unique to their culture and the smell of those ingredients can effect body smell. For example, girls will say a dude's jizz often tastes like whatever he was eating. So what you eat might have an effect on smell too.TyTe`EyEz said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I fail to see how i've been anything but rational.DonGorgon said:
yes, and in truth this is by far the dominant influence as opposed to race. But race definitely does have a contributive effect. And given the direct evidence i've seen (none, either backing or to the contrary), it would make no rational sense for me to dismiss such a widespread rumour.speakeasy said:
Just because they call it purple cabbage doesn't mean it smells as such.yoimjamie said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
All humans are the same its their environment that is different and affects the organism.. Think..yoimjamie said:
San Jose California said: