That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Never banged a dark skin black girl myself, so I'm looking forward to your report. My guess though is that the smell of a girl's poon is determined by nothing more than that particular girl's hygiene habits. Let us know what happens.yoimjamie said:
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speakeasy said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why would a woman's vagina stink because of her skin color? You know, I have no problem calling you an idiot, but I thought speakeasy was a smarter person...yoimjamie said:
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In fairness, differences in dietary habits can produce different smells. I know when I walk into an Asian person's house, it smells different than a white or black person's house. Not because of their race per se, but because they tend to cook with ingredients unique to their culture and the smell of those ingredients can effect body smell. For example, girls will say a dude's jizz often tastes like whatever he was eating. So what you eat might have an effect on smell too.TyTe`EyEz said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I fail to see how i've been anything but rational.DonGorgon said:
yes, and in truth this is by far the dominant influence as opposed to race. But race definitely does have a contributive effect. And given the direct evidence i've seen (none, either backing or to the contrary), it would make no rational sense for me to dismiss such a widespread rumour.speakeasy said:
Just because they call it purple cabbage doesn't mean it smells as such.yoimjamie said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
All humans are the same its their environment that is different and affects the organism.. Think..yoimjamie said:
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