"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

NomdePlume

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Update: Asked her out in person at the gym.

"Hey HB9! Busy?"
"Yeah, client waiting."
*Touch her arm*
"Let's go out on the weekend."
"Weekend? What time?"
"What time are you free?"
"Ummm ... talk later, client" *makes cute texting gesture*.

But no text from her since. I'm waiting it out right now since I'll see her tomorrow at the gym anyway. And I figure I shouldn't seem to eager by bombarding her with texts asking if she's figured out a time.

Any further guidance bros?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the_great_gaia

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I am currently engaged to a Korean girl. As for the poster, being self-assertive to the Korean girl probably is why she'll never be interested. Koreans don't like people that "brag" (i.e. saying you have a perfect body).

Also, if she is a traditional Korean, you don't have a burning chance with her. If her family raised her to believe that dating Americans (monsters, basically is how they view us) is terrible, she won't date you. Korean social law is critical to a Koreans' everyday life. Now how you can win points with her is if you studied Korean language. You show her you are willing to crossover into her culture, you might be a winner...
 

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bro you messed up when you asked her out. when she asks you 'what time?' is the date, you tell her the time of the date, you don't reply by asking her what time is good for her, you have to take the lead and expect her to follow like a good puppy :cheer:
 

Lord Hypnos

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the_great_gaia said:
I am currently engaged to a Korean girl. As for the poster, being self-assertive to the Korean girl probably is why she'll never be interested. Koreans don't like people that "brag" (i.e. saying you have a perfect body).
If I understand the OP correctly, she was the one complementing him on his body
 
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