"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

NomdePlume

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Update: Asked her out in person at the gym.

"Hey HB9! Busy?"
"Yeah, client waiting."
*Touch her arm*
"Let's go out on the weekend."
"Weekend? What time?"
"What time are you free?"
"Ummm ... talk later, client" *makes cute texting gesture*.

But no text from her since. I'm waiting it out right now since I'll see her tomorrow at the gym anyway. And I figure I shouldn't seem to eager by bombarding her with texts asking if she's figured out a time.

Any further guidance bros?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the_great_gaia

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I am currently engaged to a Korean girl. As for the poster, being self-assertive to the Korean girl probably is why she'll never be interested. Koreans don't like people that "brag" (i.e. saying you have a perfect body).

Also, if she is a traditional Korean, you don't have a burning chance with her. If her family raised her to believe that dating Americans (monsters, basically is how they view us) is terrible, she won't date you. Korean social law is critical to a Koreans' everyday life. Now how you can win points with her is if you studied Korean language. You show her you are willing to crossover into her culture, you might be a winner...
 

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bro you messed up when you asked her out. when she asks you 'what time?' is the date, you tell her the time of the date, you don't reply by asking her what time is good for her, you have to take the lead and expect her to follow like a good puppy :cheer:
 

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the_great_gaia said:
I am currently engaged to a Korean girl. As for the poster, being self-assertive to the Korean girl probably is why she'll never be interested. Koreans don't like people that "brag" (i.e. saying you have a perfect body).
If I understand the OP correctly, she was the one complementing him on his body
 
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