"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

NomdePlume

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Update: Asked her out in person at the gym.

"Hey HB9! Busy?"
"Yeah, client waiting."
*Touch her arm*
"Let's go out on the weekend."
"Weekend? What time?"
"What time are you free?"
"Ummm ... talk later, client" *makes cute texting gesture*.

But no text from her since. I'm waiting it out right now since I'll see her tomorrow at the gym anyway. And I figure I shouldn't seem to eager by bombarding her with texts asking if she's figured out a time.

Any further guidance bros?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the_great_gaia

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I am currently engaged to a Korean girl. As for the poster, being self-assertive to the Korean girl probably is why she'll never be interested. Koreans don't like people that "brag" (i.e. saying you have a perfect body).

Also, if she is a traditional Korean, you don't have a burning chance with her. If her family raised her to believe that dating Americans (monsters, basically is how they view us) is terrible, she won't date you. Korean social law is critical to a Koreans' everyday life. Now how you can win points with her is if you studied Korean language. You show her you are willing to crossover into her culture, you might be a winner...
 

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bro you messed up when you asked her out. when she asks you 'what time?' is the date, you tell her the time of the date, you don't reply by asking her what time is good for her, you have to take the lead and expect her to follow like a good puppy :cheer:
 

Lord Hypnos

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the_great_gaia said:
I am currently engaged to a Korean girl. As for the poster, being self-assertive to the Korean girl probably is why she'll never be interested. Koreans don't like people that "brag" (i.e. saying you have a perfect body).
If I understand the OP correctly, she was the one complementing him on his body
 
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