"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

NomdePlume

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Update: Asked her out in person at the gym.

"Hey HB9! Busy?"
"Yeah, client waiting."
*Touch her arm*
"Let's go out on the weekend."
"Weekend? What time?"
"What time are you free?"
"Ummm ... talk later, client" *makes cute texting gesture*.

But no text from her since. I'm waiting it out right now since I'll see her tomorrow at the gym anyway. And I figure I shouldn't seem to eager by bombarding her with texts asking if she's figured out a time.

Any further guidance bros?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the_great_gaia

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I am currently engaged to a Korean girl. As for the poster, being self-assertive to the Korean girl probably is why she'll never be interested. Koreans don't like people that "brag" (i.e. saying you have a perfect body).

Also, if she is a traditional Korean, you don't have a burning chance with her. If her family raised her to believe that dating Americans (monsters, basically is how they view us) is terrible, she won't date you. Korean social law is critical to a Koreans' everyday life. Now how you can win points with her is if you studied Korean language. You show her you are willing to crossover into her culture, you might be a winner...
 

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bro you messed up when you asked her out. when she asks you 'what time?' is the date, you tell her the time of the date, you don't reply by asking her what time is good for her, you have to take the lead and expect her to follow like a good puppy :cheer:
 

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the_great_gaia said:
I am currently engaged to a Korean girl. As for the poster, being self-assertive to the Korean girl probably is why she'll never be interested. Koreans don't like people that "brag" (i.e. saying you have a perfect body).
If I understand the OP correctly, she was the one complementing him on his body
 
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