"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Birthday text from LJBF girl a few months back

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Why does there always have to be a question? Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice. Sometimes you just want to put a tid bit or something on your mind out there for discussion without having a question per say.
Usually if posting something, please are looking for feedback. Thus, a question, concern or feedback on a situation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanked her and said I hope she’s doing good. Then she says she’s actually staying out of town to get away from some drama here
This is a red flag just incase no one noticed.



On a side note i would not have anwsered message or a simple Thanks like it was said from earlier post.

She is feeling a bit loonely and looking for some validation.
 

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This is a red flag just incase no one noticed.



On a side note i would not have anwsered message or a simple Thanks like it was said from earlier post.

She is feeling a bit loonely and looking for some validation.
Ya I definitely see she’s got plenty of red flags. Why her saying we should just be friends wasn’t a big deal.

Not waiting to hear from her, just fvcked another chick 30 minutes ago lol but would like to see her again for sure if she makes the effort
 

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This is just me but I never give second chances to any girl that LJBF’s me. One chance, per woman, per lifetime. She chose to use her one chance with you and friend zone you. That’s her problem not yours. You’re a better man than me though, I wouldn’t have responded at all.
I always reply to old flings and invite them over. I’ve gotten so much opportunistic ***** from it. Though I agree with this and it can never progress to anything beyond this.
 
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