"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Biggest turn offs

What kind of woman turns you off most?

  • Fat women

    Votes: 23 37.7%
  • Promiscuous women

    Votes: 5 8.2%
  • Attention wh*res

    Votes: 8 13.1%
  • Frigid/naive women

    Votes: 5 8.2%
  • Independent women

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Scruffy women

    Votes: 2 3.3%
  • Vain women

    Votes: 5 8.2%
  • Dumb women

    Votes: 6 9.8%
  • Tomboys

    Votes: 4 6.6%
  • Other

    Votes: 3 4.9%

  • Total voters
    61

JB101

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I voted for fatties, although their are exceptions. I'd rather do an attractive and chubby blonde than some masculine butch chick with an ok body.

You know the gay organization, GLAAD? Often times on TV, they'll have some sort of spokeperson on defending gays and lesbians. And the person is always EXTREMELY butch. More testosterone than football players, lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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entropy

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Fat and bad hygiene are kinda obvious


I agree.

You might as well have put in burn victim.

I think a better despcription would be....

what personality traits turn you off.

All of the above are bad, however I voted for attention *****.

This is my pet peeve.

Attention *****s, have an underlying psychological reason for craving attention/valedation.

The same could be said for males, I don't have these types as friends.

Who likes an attention ***** of any kind really? These people generally tend to be fake (another pet peeve and turn off), and people can usually spot a fake.
 

Dirtheart

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Well, they're all stereotypical turn offs without question but I was just wondering which you people considered the worst.

I'm not shallow, but I think it's natural for us to be deterred by bad physical appearance. I guess a lot of us will make exceptions for women who look good, which may be a problem as we get lured in by it and end up getting p*ssed off/hurt/degraded when we find out what sort of person they are.
 

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spitting
smoking
chewingtobacco or liptobacco or wtf it's called in english.
wearing the same pants two days in a row. etc etc
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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