"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Biggest turn offs

What kind of woman turns you off most?

  • Fat women

    Votes: 23 37.7%
  • Promiscuous women

    Votes: 5 8.2%
  • Attention wh*res

    Votes: 8 13.1%
  • Frigid/naive women

    Votes: 5 8.2%
  • Independent women

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Scruffy women

    Votes: 2 3.3%
  • Vain women

    Votes: 5 8.2%
  • Dumb women

    Votes: 6 9.8%
  • Tomboys

    Votes: 4 6.6%
  • Other

    Votes: 3 4.9%

  • Total voters
    61

JB101

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I voted for fatties, although their are exceptions. I'd rather do an attractive and chubby blonde than some masculine butch chick with an ok body.

You know the gay organization, GLAAD? Often times on TV, they'll have some sort of spokeperson on defending gays and lesbians. And the person is always EXTREMELY butch. More testosterone than football players, lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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entropy

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Fat and bad hygiene are kinda obvious


I agree.

You might as well have put in burn victim.

I think a better despcription would be....

what personality traits turn you off.

All of the above are bad, however I voted for attention *****.

This is my pet peeve.

Attention *****s, have an underlying psychological reason for craving attention/valedation.

The same could be said for males, I don't have these types as friends.

Who likes an attention ***** of any kind really? These people generally tend to be fake (another pet peeve and turn off), and people can usually spot a fake.
 

Dirtheart

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Well, they're all stereotypical turn offs without question but I was just wondering which you people considered the worst.

I'm not shallow, but I think it's natural for us to be deterred by bad physical appearance. I guess a lot of us will make exceptions for women who look good, which may be a problem as we get lured in by it and end up getting p*ssed off/hurt/degraded when we find out what sort of person they are.
 

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spitting
smoking
chewingtobacco or liptobacco or wtf it's called in english.
wearing the same pants two days in a row. etc etc
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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