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is there a way to gain width? i work out all parts of my body, and my muscles became more developed, chest, back, and arms are all arounded, but looking from the distance, i still look very narrow, can i make my frame expand?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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theory of knowledge said:
is there a way to gain width? i work out all parts of my body, and my muscles became more developed, chest, back, and arms are all arounded, but looking from the distance, i still look very narrow, can i make my frame expand?
not your bone structure, but you can just further develop your v-taper to make you appear wider. also reduce waist size.
 

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back exercises will work on this most directly. deadlifts, lat pulls, etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have a really narrow frame aswell.

The things I tend to work on more than my 'bigger framed' companions are basically working more on my shoulders, the leg abductors on leg day, and if you want obliques but abductors and shoulders will create the illusion of being wider.

But now I"m coming to find that after years of hating my narrow frame I"m coming to embrace it.
 
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