"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is there a way to gain width? i work out all parts of my body, and my muscles became more developed, chest, back, and arms are all arounded, but looking from the distance, i still look very narrow, can i make my frame expand?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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theory of knowledge said:
is there a way to gain width? i work out all parts of my body, and my muscles became more developed, chest, back, and arms are all arounded, but looking from the distance, i still look very narrow, can i make my frame expand?
not your bone structure, but you can just further develop your v-taper to make you appear wider. also reduce waist size.
 

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back exercises will work on this most directly. deadlifts, lat pulls, etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have a really narrow frame aswell.

The things I tend to work on more than my 'bigger framed' companions are basically working more on my shoulders, the leg abductors on leg day, and if you want obliques but abductors and shoulders will create the illusion of being wider.

But now I"m coming to find that after years of hating my narrow frame I"m coming to embrace it.
 
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