"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is there a way to gain width? i work out all parts of my body, and my muscles became more developed, chest, back, and arms are all arounded, but looking from the distance, i still look very narrow, can i make my frame expand?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Warboss Alex

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theory of knowledge said:
is there a way to gain width? i work out all parts of my body, and my muscles became more developed, chest, back, and arms are all arounded, but looking from the distance, i still look very narrow, can i make my frame expand?
not your bone structure, but you can just further develop your v-taper to make you appear wider. also reduce waist size.
 

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back exercises will work on this most directly. deadlifts, lat pulls, etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a really narrow frame aswell.

The things I tend to work on more than my 'bigger framed' companions are basically working more on my shoulders, the leg abductors on leg day, and if you want obliques but abductors and shoulders will create the illusion of being wider.

But now I"m coming to find that after years of hating my narrow frame I"m coming to embrace it.
 
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