MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She is an obese single mother, who looks like a man. She demands a White man, since ethnic men are too inferior for her. He must also be in shape, not obese like her, hey, just her preference!This won't open for me. It just tries to load the page but never does. Can you give us a Reader's Digest on what it says?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Delusional standards …She has standards![]()
I don't think Chad wants to put his manhood into that.She is an obese single mother, who looks like a man. She demands a White man, since ethnic men are too inferior for her. He must also be in shape, not obese like her, hey, just her preference!
You might look at her and feel disgusted, but remember, Chad will **** her. And thirsty normies will date her. She would not touch you with a 10 feet pole! She would never lower herself to even talk to an incel!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not disagreeing here. It’s a cut and paste of your article, she’s Ugly, obese, and delusional. Probably thinks she has a golden pvssy…I don't think Chad wants to put his manhood into that.![]()
What's with all the time you spending over at loserville (A/K/A Incel.Me)? You know you're better than that.
Yea, just watch Jerry Springer, Maury, etc. It's sad. I honestly do not know how they get it up. I also do not understand how men get married and allow their wife (and even themselves) to become obese. Not over weight, but obese like Della Reese. Ludicrous.They don't have to...plenty of thin dudes that love fat chicks...I think they are repulsive...
Higher weight on the wheel, thereby boosting traction, LOL?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".What's with all the time you spending over at loserville (A/K/A Incel.Me)? You know you're better than that.
Lol, to each their own i guess. All i will say if I seriously decided to go back on OLD I would have a minimum of 3 plates that were at least HB7 in rotation that I'd be banging in under a month. That's not me talking trash or bragging or anything else. Those are just facts. How do i know this? Because I've done it before 3 times now. I got to the point where I was so good on first dates my hit rate was about 75% where the woman chased me.I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".
Never good to claim victim status. You are what you make out of your own life.I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".