MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She is an obese single mother, who looks like a man. She demands a White man, since ethnic men are too inferior for her. He must also be in shape, not obese like her, hey, just her preference!This won't open for me. It just tries to load the page but never does. Can you give us a Reader's Digest on what it says?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Delusional standards …She has standards![]()
I don't think Chad wants to put his manhood into that.She is an obese single mother, who looks like a man. She demands a White man, since ethnic men are too inferior for her. He must also be in shape, not obese like her, hey, just her preference!
You might look at her and feel disgusted, but remember, Chad will **** her. And thirsty normies will date her. She would not touch you with a 10 feet pole! She would never lower herself to even talk to an incel!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not disagreeing here. It’s a cut and paste of your article, she’s Ugly, obese, and delusional. Probably thinks she has a golden pvssy…I don't think Chad wants to put his manhood into that.![]()
What's with all the time you spending over at loserville (A/K/A Incel.Me)? You know you're better than that.
Yea, just watch Jerry Springer, Maury, etc. It's sad. I honestly do not know how they get it up. I also do not understand how men get married and allow their wife (and even themselves) to become obese. Not over weight, but obese like Della Reese. Ludicrous.They don't have to...plenty of thin dudes that love fat chicks...I think they are repulsive...
Higher weight on the wheel, thereby boosting traction, LOL?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".What's with all the time you spending over at loserville (A/K/A Incel.Me)? You know you're better than that.
Lol, to each their own i guess. All i will say if I seriously decided to go back on OLD I would have a minimum of 3 plates that were at least HB7 in rotation that I'd be banging in under a month. That's not me talking trash or bragging or anything else. Those are just facts. How do i know this? Because I've done it before 3 times now. I got to the point where I was so good on first dates my hit rate was about 75% where the woman chased me.I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".
Never good to claim victim status. You are what you make out of your own life.I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".