MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She is an obese single mother, who looks like a man. She demands a White man, since ethnic men are too inferior for her. He must also be in shape, not obese like her, hey, just her preference!This won't open for me. It just tries to load the page but never does. Can you give us a Reader's Digest on what it says?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Delusional standards …She has standards![]()
I don't think Chad wants to put his manhood into that.She is an obese single mother, who looks like a man. She demands a White man, since ethnic men are too inferior for her. He must also be in shape, not obese like her, hey, just her preference!
You might look at her and feel disgusted, but remember, Chad will **** her. And thirsty normies will date her. She would not touch you with a 10 feet pole! She would never lower herself to even talk to an incel!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not disagreeing here. It’s a cut and paste of your article, she’s Ugly, obese, and delusional. Probably thinks she has a golden pvssy…I don't think Chad wants to put his manhood into that.![]()
What's with all the time you spending over at loserville (A/K/A Incel.Me)? You know you're better than that.
Yea, just watch Jerry Springer, Maury, etc. It's sad. I honestly do not know how they get it up. I also do not understand how men get married and allow their wife (and even themselves) to become obese. Not over weight, but obese like Della Reese. Ludicrous.They don't have to...plenty of thin dudes that love fat chicks...I think they are repulsive...
Higher weight on the wheel, thereby boosting traction, LOL?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".What's with all the time you spending over at loserville (A/K/A Incel.Me)? You know you're better than that.
Lol, to each their own i guess. All i will say if I seriously decided to go back on OLD I would have a minimum of 3 plates that were at least HB7 in rotation that I'd be banging in under a month. That's not me talking trash or bragging or anything else. Those are just facts. How do i know this? Because I've done it before 3 times now. I got to the point where I was so good on first dates my hit rate was about 75% where the woman chased me.I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".
Never good to claim victim status. You are what you make out of your own life.I find myself identifying with them more than the men here who "claim" to be keeping a "soft harem".