"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Big bug in "search function"

Turbobird

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The search function does not work in the way it should do. It doesn’t recognize some words in posts.

Example:

Searching the Tips Forum for the word “supplicate” doesn’t give any hit. Than look in Pooks article – “kill that desperation!”:

They see that the woman must be 'wooed' rather then them. They will, thus, supplicate and become a 'nice guy'.

Other words the search engine can’t find in the article mentioned are “disagree” and “Good”.

I had problems finding articles several times. Sometimes I just remember some words from the post, and the search engine doesn’t find them. It would save a lot of time if you could make the search function work.

Thanks for a great site!

/Turbobird
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Turbobird

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One more thing: I think this applies to the words that comes after symbols like , . “ !. (Even if that’s a blank space between them as in the example above.)

Also, I think it would be great if you could add some more advanced search options.

/Turbobird
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I deleted some stuff from DJD forum and search is working there now. Appears to be some kind of size problem as the search function was working fine in the other forums. I'll have to look into it.
 

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for the past few days, I could search Discussion for my posts.just a blánk screen.
 

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Same here Allen. Don't you think maybe that's why a lot of people ask redundant questions and not because they're not searching hard enough? Adding to that note, a lot of people are hesitant to post new thread (with their valid relationship problems) because they're afraid to get flamed by the "experts".
 
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