"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Big bug in "search function"

Turbobird

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The search function does not work in the way it should do. It doesn’t recognize some words in posts.

Example:

Searching the Tips Forum for the word “supplicate” doesn’t give any hit. Than look in Pooks article – “kill that desperation!”:

They see that the woman must be 'wooed' rather then them. They will, thus, supplicate and become a 'nice guy'.

Other words the search engine can’t find in the article mentioned are “disagree” and “Good”.

I had problems finding articles several times. Sometimes I just remember some words from the post, and the search engine doesn’t find them. It would save a lot of time if you could make the search function work.

Thanks for a great site!

/Turbobird
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Turbobird

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One more thing: I think this applies to the words that comes after symbols like , . “ !. (Even if that’s a blank space between them as in the example above.)

Also, I think it would be great if you could add some more advanced search options.

/Turbobird
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I deleted some stuff from DJD forum and search is working there now. Appears to be some kind of size problem as the search function was working fine in the other forums. I'll have to look into it.
 

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for the past few days, I could search Discussion for my posts.just a blánk screen.
 

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Same here Allen. Don't you think maybe that's why a lot of people ask redundant questions and not because they're not searching hard enough? Adding to that note, a lot of people are hesitant to post new thread (with their valid relationship problems) because they're afraid to get flamed by the "experts".
 
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