"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Big bug in "search function"

Turbobird

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The search function does not work in the way it should do. It doesn’t recognize some words in posts.

Example:

Searching the Tips Forum for the word “supplicate” doesn’t give any hit. Than look in Pooks article – “kill that desperation!”:

They see that the woman must be 'wooed' rather then them. They will, thus, supplicate and become a 'nice guy'.

Other words the search engine can’t find in the article mentioned are “disagree” and “Good”.

I had problems finding articles several times. Sometimes I just remember some words from the post, and the search engine doesn’t find them. It would save a lot of time if you could make the search function work.

Thanks for a great site!

/Turbobird
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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One more thing: I think this applies to the words that comes after symbols like , . “ !. (Even if that’s a blank space between them as in the example above.)

Also, I think it would be great if you could add some more advanced search options.

/Turbobird
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I deleted some stuff from DJD forum and search is working there now. Appears to be some kind of size problem as the search function was working fine in the other forums. I'll have to look into it.
 

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for the past few days, I could search Discussion for my posts.just a blánk screen.
 

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Same here Allen. Don't you think maybe that's why a lot of people ask redundant questions and not because they're not searching hard enough? Adding to that note, a lot of people are hesitant to post new thread (with their valid relationship problems) because they're afraid to get flamed by the "experts".
 
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