I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
These are the reasons we shouldn't have women posting here. Wyld, I know you've got a lot of great info to add at times but your x chromosone is completely useless at other times such as thisWyldfire said:I like to do heavy house cleaning listening to Fur Elise...not sure why...but I love it, lol.
I prefer getting stoned with Moonlight Sonata strumming in the background.Wyldfire said:I like to do heavy house cleaning listening to Fur Elise...not sure why...but I love it, lol.
The last good Ozzy record was Diary of a madman. He's had a couple of decent cuts but as far as albums he's run short.joekerr31 said:i just did a work out listenign to the new ozzy album (which is one of his best).
i gotta tell ya, that was more satisfying than a woman.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i agree. i liked his older stuff. haven't enjoyed an ozzy album in probably 10 years now - his songs have been pretty fluffy / pointless. but this album reminds me of the old prince of darkness. every song on the album is good (not often you can say that about a new album, theres always at least 1 sh*tty track).KarmaSutra said:The last good Ozzy record was Diary of a madman. He's had a couple of decent cuts but as far as albums he's run short.
What's good about this one?
Hah...you haven't seen me do hardcore house cleaning, lol. I'm not talking doing the dishes or vacuuming. I'm talking moving around every last bit of furniture in the house and scrubbing every inch from ceiling to floor...by my self. It's an entire day of all out physical exertion. I usually take apart the appliances and clean out any dust or lint, too.MacAvoy said:These are the reasons we shouldn't have women posting here. Wyld, I know you've got a lot of great info to add at times but your x chromosone is completely useless at other times such as this
ha ha. man its been a couple days since i last found treasure, but i hear you on that one! great list hereSTR8UP said:- Finding treasure
- That wheat beer I had at the micro brewery under the rail tracks in Berlin
- Steak, lobster, and seared tuna mignon at my favorite restaurant