"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
better than a woman
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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These are the reasons we shouldn't have women posting here. Wyld, I know you've got a lot of great info to add at times but your x chromosone is completely useless at other times such as thisWyldfire said:
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The last good Ozzy record was Diary of a madman. He's had a couple of decent cuts but as far as albums he's run short.joekerr31 said:i just did a work out listenign to the new ozzy album (which is one of his best).
i gotta tell ya, that was more satisfying than a woman.
What's good about this one?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i agree. i liked his older stuff. haven't enjoyed an ozzy album in probably 10 years now - his songs have been pretty fluffy / pointless. but this album reminds me of the old prince of darkness. every song on the album is good (not often you can say that about a new album, theres always at least 1 sh*tty track).KarmaSutra said:
http://www.ozzy.com/
- on the homepage click the 'listen' button. it lets you listen to one of the tracks. not the best track on the album, but pretty good.
Hah...you haven't seen me do hardcore house cleaning, lol. I'm not talking doing the dishes or vacuuming. I'm talking moving around every last bit of furniture in the house and scrubbing every inch from ceiling to floor...by my self. It's an entire day of all out physical exertion. I usually take apart the appliances and clean out any dust or lint, too.MacAvoy said:
- Finding treasure
- Traveling to exotic places
- That wheat beer I had at the micro brewery under the rail tracks in Berlin
- Eastern European art
- Steak, lobster, and seared tuna mignon at my favorite restaurant
I'm sure I'll think of more
ha ha. man its been a couple days since i last found treasure, but i hear you on that one! great list hereSTR8UP said:
...i would like to add,
- those 99 cent chilli cheese corn dogs sold at the salvation army concessions stand
much better than a woman.
p.s. its nice to see some of the ladies of the mature men section join in this thread.