Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
These are the reasons we shouldn't have women posting here. Wyld, I know you've got a lot of great info to add at times but your x chromosone is completely useless at other times such as thisWyldfire said:I like to do heavy house cleaning listening to Fur Elise...not sure why...but I love it, lol.
I prefer getting stoned with Moonlight Sonata strumming in the background.Wyldfire said:I like to do heavy house cleaning listening to Fur Elise...not sure why...but I love it, lol.
The last good Ozzy record was Diary of a madman. He's had a couple of decent cuts but as far as albums he's run short.joekerr31 said:i just did a work out listenign to the new ozzy album (which is one of his best).
i gotta tell ya, that was more satisfying than a woman.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i agree. i liked his older stuff. haven't enjoyed an ozzy album in probably 10 years now - his songs have been pretty fluffy / pointless. but this album reminds me of the old prince of darkness. every song on the album is good (not often you can say that about a new album, theres always at least 1 sh*tty track).KarmaSutra said:The last good Ozzy record was Diary of a madman. He's had a couple of decent cuts but as far as albums he's run short.
What's good about this one?
Hah...you haven't seen me do hardcore house cleaning, lol. I'm not talking doing the dishes or vacuuming. I'm talking moving around every last bit of furniture in the house and scrubbing every inch from ceiling to floor...by my self. It's an entire day of all out physical exertion. I usually take apart the appliances and clean out any dust or lint, too.MacAvoy said:These are the reasons we shouldn't have women posting here. Wyld, I know you've got a lot of great info to add at times but your x chromosone is completely useless at other times such as this
ha ha. man its been a couple days since i last found treasure, but i hear you on that one! great list hereSTR8UP said:- Finding treasure
- That wheat beer I had at the micro brewery under the rail tracks in Berlin
- Steak, lobster, and seared tuna mignon at my favorite restaurant