Master Don Juan
- Aug 6, 2009
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Regarding the bolded part: But is that because that is their preference? Or is it because the combination is rare and hard to find?Of course it's an option to be both the sex guy and the guy she wants to keep around, some sort of combination of the jerk and the nice guy, let's say. And on paper, that should be the guy a woman would most prefer. However, in practice most women seem to go for either one of the opposites rather than the combination... One for sex/superficial fling/emotional rush and the other for a stable relationship...
I believe the latter has to do with the fear of not being in control.
That said, there is always some variation in people when it comes to attraction, which is one reason I never take these hard and fast PUA rules too seriously. But you're right, some women want to be in control. Still, we're told that women are attracted to strong men, so I find it hard to believe that most women will choose a weak men when they can get a stronger one. Even if logic tells us they can manipulate the weaker man and get an easier life. But logic aside, their emotions alone should draw them more toward the strong man. And we're told women go more by their emotions than logic.
Even if none of that were true, I would still want the best qualities of the sex guy, protector, and provider types. Because those qualities will make MY life better, women or not.