"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best workout plan for building mass

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I was reading an old PDF by Anthony Ellis about building mass. What is the best plan to build mass these days?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anything you commit to and stick with.
Haven't read much on subject for years, but general consensus for natties is hitting muscles with higher frequency, rather body part split every 7 days.

Fully body 3 times a week if starting out, although I preferred upper lower, 4 times a week.

Now I split 3 ways, push, pull, legs - usually 5 times a week.

Key things are consistency, intensity and diet. If you hit those 3 things, and include main compounds in your workouts, you could choose pretty any recommended routine and get decent results.
 

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Key things are consistency, intensity and diet. If you hit those 3 things, and include main compounds in your workouts, you could choose pretty any recommended routine and get decent results.
Pretty much this. If you'd ask me I'd say Starting Strength or 5x5. If you want mass you need a surplus of calories and a surplus of protein.
 

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No idea as I've never done a mass-oriented program. I've heard Shortcut to Size and Arnolds Blueprint to Mass are good though.

Pretty much this. If you'd ask me I'd say Starting Strength or 5x5. If you want mass you need a surplus of calories and a surplus of protein.
In my experience 5x5 type of workouts are better for strength development and foundation than size. Some people with blessed genetics might make it work though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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80% of skeletal muscle is in the legs, back, and posterior chain. To build mass, you must squat, deadlift, and barbell row. I recommend stronglifts 5X5.
Pullups too, especially weighted.
 

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bascially do the big compounds for each body part, no need to focus too much on any area, do everything evenly. Finish off with some isolations for arms, calves etc.
 
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