"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best way to tell a chick I don't want to her anymore..

Bigbuttlover

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So I have been dating a girl for about 6 months. Only dating, not a relationship or anything. She knows that as well. During this time, I have been dating plenty of other women, now I am basically just bored with her and don't want to continue dating. She has been out of town and now back.

What is the smoothest easiest way to tell her? I would rather avoid this in person, so online or phone would be preferable. Usually I just stop answering calls and it takes care of itself but this chick isn't taking a hint.

Thx
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rakishness

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Just be honest. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship at this time. Giver her the old "It's me not you" speech. I hope this helps. Breaking up sucks sometimes.

BTW...I can tell by your name you are gonna love this vid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQFelb_bpzU

DAYYUUUM!!!!!!
 

Bigbuttlover

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rakishness said:
Just be honest. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship at this time. Giver her the old "It's me not you" speech. I hope this helps. Breaking up sucks sometimes.

BTW...I can tell by your name you are gonna love this vid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQFelb_bpzU

DAYYUUUM!!!!!!
Damn!!! That is truly one huge ass. I've had some big butts in my day but nothing like that...crazy lol..nice link.

Back to the subject, thing is its not a relationship, we were just dating, nothing more. I just dont want to date her anymore, I got bored. She knows I see other people, I dont know if she was, I dont really care.

Maybe I should just be honest as you say and tell her I met someone and want to see how it progresses.
 

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^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
 

Bigbuttlover

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ryannath said:
^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
Sick my ass, I would love to get my hands on that big ass. She doesnt even look fat, just really curvy. I love **** like that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage

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Bigbuttlover said:
What is the smoothest easiest way to tell her? I would rather avoid this in person, so online or phone would be preferable. Usually I just stop answering calls and it takes care of itself but this chick isn't taking a hint.
Is this girl proned to violence, threats or suicide? if the answer is no then there is no reason as to why you can't just tell her in person that you want to see other people and to take a break from her to figure things out. The quickest way to do so is don't break up with her in some stupid resturant or a coffee place where you have to explain yourself, sit there and suffer. A quick drive by with your car by her house telling her its over should be fine.
 

rakishness

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ryannath said:
^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
You're nuts man. That is a work of art. Look at dem curves!!!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

Bigbuttlover

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You're nuts man. That is a work of art. Look at dem curves!!!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
Ahhh, a man with taste...

Hell yes that ass is a work of art. It's not everyday you see a girl with an ass like that on that body.

The things I would do to that...lol
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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I don't see how that a$$ is attractive. It looks so awkward. Like an a$$ growing out of another a$$.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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