"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best way to tell a chick I don't want to her anymore..

Bigbuttlover

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So I have been dating a girl for about 6 months. Only dating, not a relationship or anything. She knows that as well. During this time, I have been dating plenty of other women, now I am basically just bored with her and don't want to continue dating. She has been out of town and now back.

What is the smoothest easiest way to tell her? I would rather avoid this in person, so online or phone would be preferable. Usually I just stop answering calls and it takes care of itself but this chick isn't taking a hint.

Thx
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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rakishness

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Just be honest. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship at this time. Giver her the old "It's me not you" speech. I hope this helps. Breaking up sucks sometimes.

BTW...I can tell by your name you are gonna love this vid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQFelb_bpzU

DAYYUUUM!!!!!!
 

Bigbuttlover

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rakishness said:
Just be honest. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship at this time. Giver her the old "It's me not you" speech. I hope this helps. Breaking up sucks sometimes.

BTW...I can tell by your name you are gonna love this vid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQFelb_bpzU

DAYYUUUM!!!!!!
Damn!!! That is truly one huge ass. I've had some big butts in my day but nothing like that...crazy lol..nice link.

Back to the subject, thing is its not a relationship, we were just dating, nothing more. I just dont want to date her anymore, I got bored. She knows I see other people, I dont know if she was, I dont really care.

Maybe I should just be honest as you say and tell her I met someone and want to see how it progresses.
 

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^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
 

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ryannath said:
^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
Sick my ass, I would love to get my hands on that big ass. She doesnt even look fat, just really curvy. I love **** like that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDamage

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Bigbuttlover said:
What is the smoothest easiest way to tell her? I would rather avoid this in person, so online or phone would be preferable. Usually I just stop answering calls and it takes care of itself but this chick isn't taking a hint.
Is this girl proned to violence, threats or suicide? if the answer is no then there is no reason as to why you can't just tell her in person that you want to see other people and to take a break from her to figure things out. The quickest way to do so is don't break up with her in some stupid resturant or a coffee place where you have to explain yourself, sit there and suffer. A quick drive by with your car by her house telling her its over should be fine.
 

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ryannath said:
^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
You're nuts man. That is a work of art. Look at dem curves!!!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

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You're nuts man. That is a work of art. Look at dem curves!!!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
Ahhh, a man with taste...

Hell yes that ass is a work of art. It's not everyday you see a girl with an ass like that on that body.

The things I would do to that...lol
 

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I don't see how that a$$ is attractive. It looks so awkward. Like an a$$ growing out of another a$$.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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