"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Best way to tell a chick I don't want to her anymore..

Bigbuttlover

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So I have been dating a girl for about 6 months. Only dating, not a relationship or anything. She knows that as well. During this time, I have been dating plenty of other women, now I am basically just bored with her and don't want to continue dating. She has been out of town and now back.

What is the smoothest easiest way to tell her? I would rather avoid this in person, so online or phone would be preferable. Usually I just stop answering calls and it takes care of itself but this chick isn't taking a hint.

Thx
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rakishness

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Just be honest. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship at this time. Giver her the old "It's me not you" speech. I hope this helps. Breaking up sucks sometimes.

BTW...I can tell by your name you are gonna love this vid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQFelb_bpzU

DAYYUUUM!!!!!!
 

Bigbuttlover

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rakishness said:
Just be honest. Tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship at this time. Giver her the old "It's me not you" speech. I hope this helps. Breaking up sucks sometimes.

BTW...I can tell by your name you are gonna love this vid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQFelb_bpzU

DAYYUUUM!!!!!!
Damn!!! That is truly one huge ass. I've had some big butts in my day but nothing like that...crazy lol..nice link.

Back to the subject, thing is its not a relationship, we were just dating, nothing more. I just dont want to date her anymore, I got bored. She knows I see other people, I dont know if she was, I dont really care.

Maybe I should just be honest as you say and tell her I met someone and want to see how it progresses.
 

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^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
 

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ryannath said:
^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
Sick my ass, I would love to get my hands on that big ass. She doesnt even look fat, just really curvy. I love **** like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJDamage

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Bigbuttlover said:
What is the smoothest easiest way to tell her? I would rather avoid this in person, so online or phone would be preferable. Usually I just stop answering calls and it takes care of itself but this chick isn't taking a hint.
Is this girl proned to violence, threats or suicide? if the answer is no then there is no reason as to why you can't just tell her in person that you want to see other people and to take a break from her to figure things out. The quickest way to do so is don't break up with her in some stupid resturant or a coffee place where you have to explain yourself, sit there and suffer. A quick drive by with your car by her house telling her its over should be fine.
 

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ryannath said:
^^^UHH, that girl is a fatass. You can tell that she eats at that place alot, McDonalds. All that fatty food is going straight to her ass. Sick.
You're nuts man. That is a work of art. Look at dem curves!!!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

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You're nuts man. That is a work of art. Look at dem curves!!!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
Ahhh, a man with taste...

Hell yes that ass is a work of art. It's not everyday you see a girl with an ass like that on that body.

The things I would do to that...lol
 

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I don't see how that a$$ is attractive. It looks so awkward. Like an a$$ growing out of another a$$.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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